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A common mistake men make is to wear ill-fitting clothes in an effort to look thinner. This tactic actually does the opposite. When you wear something with too much volume, you look bigger as well. When you wear something that is too small, you look like you’re going to burst at the seams. Wearing clothes that fit your body properly, no matter your size, is actually the best way to appear thinner and highlight your favorite areas. For the best fit, have your clothes tailored. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📸: @donald_mokgale Like 🔹 Comment 🔹Share

Of course, it's not natural to say that money either makes you happy or sad.  It truly does affect a relationship if there is less or more money. A healthy relationship can be destroyed if there is financial insecurity or on the other hand it can create a very happy one if there is stable income flow and a bright career. Both the people in a relationship may sometimes not be from the same financial background, so after the initial courting stages, things become black and white and their comfort level gets affected. Such a situation can come up when there is not sufficient income or the salaries are not enough to live the lifestyle that they have been living thus far. Issues also arise when one of them is out of a job. The earning by one and spending by another can take its toll on a healthy relationship. Managing the finances become difficult and there are conflicts that arise out of petty things like clothes, food, rent, car, and other things. When you're able to manage your finances that's one less thing to worry about in your relationship. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📸 @tj_caver Like 🔹 Comment 🔹 Share

It's a pretty easy way to let ourselves off the hook. "Hey, you did your best." But it fails to explain the improvement in the 100-meter dash. Or the way we're able to somehow summon more energy and more insight when there's a lot on the line. Or the tremendous amount of care and love we can bring to a fellow human who needs it. By defining "our best" as the thing we did when we merely put a lot of effort into a task, I fear we're letting ourselves off the hook. In fact, it might not require a lot of effort, but a ridiculous amount of effort, an unreasonable amount of preparation, a silly amount of focus... and even then, there might be a little bit left to give. It's entirely possible that it's not worth the commitment or the risk or the fear to go that far along in creating something that's actually our best. But when we make that compromise, we should own it. "It's not worth doing my best" is actually more honest and powerful than failing while being sort of focused. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📸 @isaacabrahamjr Like🔹Comment 🔹Share

How do you know she's the one? “When you know, you know” right? But what about when we think we know, but we’re not sure? Sometimes love can be a bit confusing and we can overlook an amazing girlfriend whos wife material when she's right in front of us. If you are already in a relationship and you think you’ve found “The One”, make sure to pay close attention to your feelings. Does she make you comfortable? Does she support your future goals? These are the things you want to consider when you’re committed to a long-term relationship. The most classic, yet utterly depressing love stories we have heard for decades are about those who live in regret and long for the day that they can reunite with “the one who got away. These kinds of love screw ups happen all to often, mainly because there are too many distractions and WE DON’T SEE THE SIGNS that she’s a keeper. Finding the right woman is a lifelong challenge. Don’t live your life in regret knowing that she was right in front of you for years and you let her go. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📸 @hype4 Like🔹Comment 🔹Share

I can only imagine how the world will be by the time my sons are teaching their boys to be men, but I do know that by being the best father I can be, I’m shaping a fraction of our future. As I teach my sons, so I teach my grandsons. Those values that are most important to me, are the values that will grow dearest to them. In between the large lessons learned, are the small examples set. Those things which go unspoken perhaps, but rarely unnoticed. For example, my sons will know how to admit when they are wrong, because a real man does not always carry the need to be right. They will know how to play with their children, because they will use the same imagination they have always been encouraged to use. A man, above all, recognizes his duty and therefore does not accept it lightly. He understands that his word is his bond, exercised by everyday actions and daily decisions. A man, a real man, will not make promises he cannot keep, and chooses his words as carefully as he does his commitments. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📸 @heisharper Like🔹Comment 🔹Share

Seduction is all about timing. Part of what makes a person want another person is the anticipation. When you meet a woman you're interested in, proceed slowly. Wait a bit to approach her and start off by listening more than you talk. Do not reveal your intention right away as this might be off-putting. Move slowly, at least at first. When you approach a woman, try to listen. People tend to be attracted to those who seem interested in them. Rather than boasting about your own accomplishment and telling all your own stories, try listening instead. Be confident; confidence is something most people are attracted to. Being comfortable with yourself will draw other people to you. Try to proceed with confidence while you interact with the women you' desire. Seduction is all about paying attention to someone's else's needs and moving forward accordingly. If you want to seduce a woman, spend time getting to know her, set an appropriate atmosphere, and move slowly while getting physical. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📷 @rolandagli Like🔹Comment 🔹Share

If you’re willing to make sacrifices, willing to put in the long hours and sleepless nights, willing to take a step back before taking a giant leap forward – you’ll achieve anything you want to achieve. Ignore the naysayers, surround yourself with supportive people, maintain a positive attitude, ask questions, stay hungry for constant growth and  learning, always remain humble while exuding confidence, work hard, and at the end of the day, enjoy the hell out of life. It’s a gift we should be thankful for every single day. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📷 @DonJay_Chirha Like🔹Comment 🔹Share

You might think that personal greatness isn't the same as true greatness. Certainly, widely recognized greatness has a lot of benefits whether acclaim, wealth, or status. But if you ask those who have achieved this form of greatness, rarely do they speak about the external benefits (e.g., the Olympic gold medal, the book deal, IPO). Instead, they revel in pursuing greatness, the struggles they experienced and the satisfaction of overcoming them, and the small victories that led to the big success. In other words, and I realize that this is very cliché, they celebrated the journey rather than the arrival at the destination of their success. Anyone who aspires to true greatness, but only ends up finding their own personal greatness can experience the very same benefits as those who become superstars in their field. And in that experience is the real reason why we suffer the blood, sweat, and tears as we pursue something as elusive and unlikely as greatness. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📸 @drjude_ Like🔹Comment 🔹Share

Love is many things. It's both painful and beautiful, burdensome and protective. Most people want it, some people find it, and a few die never experiencing it. Fellas you may think she talks about anything and everything. How could she possibly have trouble communicating? The truth is, she fears rejection and being alone more than the average man does. The result is that most women will talk about everything except what's bothering them most, out of fear of her significant other leaving her or being angry with her. The cure: Reassure her that you love her and will not leave her over a fight or relationship issue. At this point, your love should be strong enough to withstand most things, bickering and fighting included. Tell her that all long relationships have fights, and the most important thing is solving problems to avoid building up resentment that could damage the relationship. Do not: Tell her she is being irrational for her fears of you leaving. While she knows that you mean it in a reassuring sense, that you would never leave her over something so insignificant, she takes it to mean that you don't respect her opinions or emotions, and think she's a silly little girl. Her emotions, while probably irrational, are what she truly feels and, as such, are valid. Treat her with the respect she deserves. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener I📸 @tjheath34 Like🔹Comment 🔹Share

Its 2020 y'all and we've missed you guys. Stay tuned as Debener has went GLOBAL! #weoverme #weallwegot

I can only imagine how the world will be by the time my sons are teaching their boys to be men, but I do know that by being the best father I can be, I’m shaping a fraction of our future. As I teach my sons, so I teach my grandsons. Those values that are most important to me, are the values that will grow dearest to them. In between the large lessons learned, are the small examples set. Those things which go unspoken perhaps, but rarely unnoticed. For example, my sons will know how to admit when they are wrong, because a real man does not always carry the need to be right. They will know how to play with their children, because they will use the same imagination they have always been encouraged to use. A man, above all, recognizes his duty and therefore does not accept it lightly. He understands that his word is his bond, exercised by everyday actions and daily decisions. A man, a real man, will not make promises he cannot keep, and chooses his words as carefully as he does his commitments. -Be Fly, Be Classy, Be Debener Like🔹Comment 🔹Share