Know what you want. . . Have your Top 5 must haves and the rest you can work out. . . . 📚Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now is available on Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble, IBooks and Itunes WWW.DivinginStilettosFirst.Com . . . #blackauthorsmatter #relationshipexpert #datinginyour30s #relationshipgoals❤️ #selfawarenessjourney #booksonbooks #authorpreneur #divinginstilettosfirst #s

The beautiful Desiree Delia has joined me to share some tips on Make Up Looks for a first date. . . What your lip color says about you. . What makeup to wear when biking, attending a sip and paint or a fancy dinner. . How important is skin care? . . Mask Make Up: How to play up those eyes and Brows! . . And of course @desireedeliamua helped me answer a scenario. . . If you’d like to see us back again drop a comment and let us know. . . Thanks for watching! . . . #datenightideas #relationshipexpert #datemakeup #beautybloger #firstdates #celebritymua #crueltyfree #makeupjunkie #microinfluencers #girltalk #makeuptipsandtricks #authorssupportingauthors #datingin2020 #datingadviceforwomen  #blackgirlswhowrite #datingquestions #diversereads #winelover🍷 #aspiringwriter #datingadvice #greenlightfam #audiobookstagram #desireedeliamua #divinginstilettosfirst

⏰Thank you for tuning in to Ask Shaunie Feat Chef Rashaun ⏰ . . 🧑🏾‍🍳@chefrashaun and I raised the question Do you always have to feel a spark when you like someone?”👀 And we made Breakfast tostados w/ Apple sage hash. 🤗🤗🤗 . . Is feeling butterflies a good or bad thing? 👀 . . 👂🏽We want to hear your thoughts 👂🏽 . . Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!! We love to read your comments and get your insight. . . 🧑🏾‍🍳Make sure you check out Chef Rashaun on Facebook Every Friday and follow infinitecatering👨🏿‍🍳 . . 🎧Make sure you check out @_Herview Podcast on Facebook Live Every Sunday at 7pm est 4pm pst. SEASON 2 HAS ARRIVED. Season 2 Episode 1: No Romance without Finance feat Financial Experts @theboujiebudgeter @shawnjohn268 ” 🎧 . . 📚For a signed Copy of my Book: Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now check out my website www.DivingInStilettosFirst.com 📚 . . See You Next Thursday!!! . . . #relationshipexpert #celebritychefs #cookingdemo #breakfastfordinner #datingquestions #relationshiprules #mealpreparation #datingadviceforwomen #budgetmeals #veganrecipes #datingproblems #singlewomen #relationshipexpert #supportblackauthors #datingadviceforwomen #quarantinefood #datingin2020 #datingadviceformen #datingafterdivorce #datingadviceformen  #blackgirlswhowrite #cookbookclub #diversereads #blackromance #goodblackreads #infinitecatering #datingquestions #askshaunie #divinginstilettosfirst

⏰Set your alarms for 7:30pm Tonight ⏰ . . 🧑🏾‍🍳@chefrashaun and I want to know “Do you always have to feel a spark when you like someone?”👀 We are making Breakfast Tostados w/ Apple sage Hash🍳 . . I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS MUSIC . Are feeling butterflies a good thing?👀 . . We want to hear your thoughts . . . Join us tonight and bring your opinions and your appetite!! . . . #relationshipexpert #celebritychefs #cookingdemo #breakfastfordinner #datingquestions #relationshiprules #mealpreparation #datingadviceforwomen #budgetmeals #datingproblems #singlewomen #relationshipexpert #supportblackauthors #datingadviceforwomen #quarantinefood #datingin2020 #datingadviceformen #waitonGod #datingafterdivorce #datingadviceformen  #blackgirlswhowrite #cookbookclub #diversereads #aspiringwriter #goodblackreads #infinitecatering #datingquestions #askshaunie #divinginstilettosfirst

Don’t fall for the trap. They are your ex for a reason. . . The best apology is changed behavior. Know your worth! . . 📚Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right No is available on Amazon, AUDIBLE, Barnes & Noble, IBooks and Itunes. WWW.divinginstilettosfirst.com . . . #blackauthorsmatter #relationshipexpert #datinginyour30s #caseoftheex #selfawarenessjourney #booksonbooks #authorpreneur #divinginstilettosfirst #toxic

Happy Dating Tip Tuesday: Today we are talking about Cuffing Season🤗 . . In the colder months (October-February) people feel an increased desire to connect, some are lonely, some are depressed and they look to couple up with someone to spend quality time with indoors. 🤷🏾‍♀️ . . 💚3 Essentials for a Successful Cuffing Season. . . 1. Be very clear on what it is. Don’t mislead people and don’t go in thinking you can convince someone it’s something more. . . 2. Take some space. It’s easy to get wrapped up in someone else when things get really familiar. Don’t go missing from your life to accommodate someone else’s. You can still maintain you independence and enjoy someone else’s company. . . 3. Communicate Effectively. Have a check in. Sometimes feelings have changed. Talk about the change and make sure you’re still on the same page. . . 💚 Be honest with your partner and your self and respect each other. . . 📚Diving In Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now AVAILABLE on: Amazon, Audible, Barnes and Noble, Itunes, IBooks and www.Divinginstilettosfirst.com . Happy Dating 💚 . . . #cuffingseason #relationshipexpert #datingadvice101 #cuffing #datingtip #communicatebetter #supportblackauthors #datingadviceforwomen #blacklove #blackwomenlead #datingafterdivorce #podcastingwhileblack #datingproblems #trustblackwomen #datingin2020 #datingadviceformen  #blackgirlswhowrite #datingquestions #diversereads #blackromance #winelover🍷 #aspiringwriter #datingadvice #greenlightfam #goodblackreads #audiobookstagram #datingtiptuesday #divinginstilettosfirst

Getting ready for a First Date you have to make peace with the unexpected. Go in with the idea you’re going to have fun no matter what lol . . . 📚Diving In Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now Available on Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble and www.divinginstilettosfirst.com . . #blackauthorsmatter #firstdates #relationshipexpert #cuffingseason #divinginstilettosfirst #authorpreneur #datingadvice #datingquestions

Dating after a Divorce, an Annulment, or even just a bad break up is not always the easiest thing to Dive back into. Can you imagine the dust not even being settled from your last break up and someone is trying to snatch you up already? What if it was a blast from the past?🙋🏾‍♀️ . . 💚Here’s a scene from my Book Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now📚 . . After my annulment I dived back into the dating pool of NYC in search of love again. Here I’m on my first date after filing for my annulment. Yes my first date was with an ex from grade school. You’ll see he has a way with words. 👀 . . 💚So here’s one of many dating stories. Let me know if you can relate. . . 🧐How was your first date after a hard breakup? Would you date a blast from the past?🤷🏾‍♀️ Tag A Friend, Share, Comment Below👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇 . . 📖 www.divinginstilettosfirst.com✊🏾 . . *I do not own the rights to this music. . . . #storytimethread #audiobookstagram #datinginyour30s #blackauthorsmatter #blackwomenauthors #redflags #blackrelationships #authorssupportingauthors #blackwriter #shortmovies #datingstories #datingwithapurpose #relationshipexpert #winelover🍷 #blackbooksmatter #publishedauthor #supportblackauthors #loveandrelationships #selfawarenessjourney #datingadvice #breakupmemes #blackwomenlead #indiesareworthit #datingcoach #blackbusinesswoman #blacklove #blackgirlswhowrite #divinginstilettosfirst

⏰Thank you for tuning in to Ask Shaunie Feat Chef Rashaun ⏰ . . 🧑🏾‍🍳@chefrashaun and I raised the question Do you have a type?”👀 And we made Mediterranean Salad Tacos. 🤗🤗🤗 . . Do you end up with your type? 👀 . . 👂🏽We want to hear your thoughts 👂🏽 . . Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!! We love to read your comments and get your insight. . . 🧑🏾‍🍳Make sure you check out Chef Rashaun on Facebook Every Friday and follow infinitecatering👨🏿‍🍳 . . 🎧Make sure you check out @_Herview Podcast on Facebook Live Every Sunday at 7pm est 4pm pst. We are prepping for Season 2 so if you’d like to be a guest or have questions send an email to [email protected] because this next season is going to be good” 🎧 . . 📚For a signed Copy of my Book: Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now check out my website www.DivingInStilettosFirst.com 📚 . . See You Next Thursday!!! . . . #relationshipexpert #celebritychefs #cookingdemo #taconight #datingquestions #relationshiprules #mealpreparation #datingadviceforwomen #budgetmeals #veganrecipes #datingproblems #singlewomen #relationshipexpert #supportblackauthors #datingadviceforwomen #quarantinefood #datingin2020 #datingafterdivorce #datingadviceformen  #blackgirlswhowrite #cookbookclub #diversereads #blackromance #aspiringwriter #goodblackreads #infinitecatering #datingquestions #askshaunie #divinginstilettosfirst

⏰Set your alarms for 7:30pm Tonight ⏰ . . 🧑🏾‍🍳@chefrashaun and I want to know “Do you have a Type?”👀 We are making Mediterranean Salad Tacos 🌮 . . I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS MUSIC . Do you end up with your type?👀 . . We want to hear your thoughts . . . Join us tonight and bring your opinions and your appetite!! . . . #relationshipexpert #celebritychefs #cookingdemo #taconight #datingquestions #relationshiprules #mealpreparation #datingadviceforwomen #budgetmeals #datingproblems #singlewomen #relationshipexpert #supportblackauthors #datingadviceforwomen #quarantinefood #datingin2020 #datingadviceformen #waitonGod #datingafterdivorce #datingadviceformen  #blackgirlswhowrite #cookbookclub #diversereads #aspiringwriter #goodblackreads #infinitecatering #datingquestions #askshaunie #divinginstilettosfirst

Stop Ignoring Red Flags! When someone shows you who they are...BELIEVE Them! . . 📚Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now is available on Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble, Itunes, IBooks ... . . #blackauthorsmatter #relationshipexpert #redflags #cuffingseason #divinginstilettosfirst #toxicrelationships #authorpreneur #datingquestions

Happy Dating Tip Tuesday: Today we are talking about Red Flags 🚩 . . What Are They, Where are they and How do we deal with them. 🤷🏾‍♀️ . . 💚Red Flags A sign, a warning, a feeling of impending danger or potential to deal with a manipulative or possible psychotic person. . Where do you find them 🚩 . Romantic Relationships Family Career Health . How do you deal with them🚩 . 🛑Acknowledge it 🛑Be honest about the size of them (level of importance) 🛑Speak about them out loud ( professional or good friend) 🛑Trust your intuition 🛑Address it. (5 steps to dealing with Red Flags Kira Lynae) . . 🛑Stop Ignoring Red Flags.🚩 . 📚Diving In Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr. Right Now AVAILABLE on: Amazon, Audible, Barnes and Noble, Itunes, IBooks and www.Divinginstilettosfirst.com . Happy Dating 💚 . #redflags #relationshipexpert #datingadvice101 #datingtip #cuffingseason #supportblackauthors #datingadviceforwomen #blacklove #blackwomenlead #datingafterdivorce #podcastingwhileblack #datingproblems #redflag #trustblackwomen #datingin2020 #datingadviceformen  #blackgirlswhowrite #datingquestions #diversereads #blackromance #winelover🍷 #aspiringwriter #datingadvice #greenlightfam #goodblackreads #audiobookstagram #datingtiptuesday #divinginstilettosfirst